Notes • Guides • Stories
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Short, honest writing for side guys — and anyone who wants intimacy that’s connection-first. This section will grow slowly and intentionally through 2026.
No doomscrolling. No performative hot takes. Just clarity, kindness, and practical language.
What you’ll find here
- Realistic dating & communication tips
- Side identity clarity (without shame)
- PNW-friendly community ideas
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Why I built this site
This is a brief personal story about how I came to understand my own way of connecting and desiring. It’s the context behind why this site exists.
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Finding my place on the "Side"
A personal reflection on side identity, and the long process of realizing that connection and intimacy don't need penetration to be real - or complete.
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2026-12-15 • Identity
Finding my place on the "Side"
More thoughts about being a side in the world of tops and bottoms.